Tuesday, February 11, 2025
Good and Wise Parents
Friday, December 20, 2024
Greetings from the Other Side of the Hard Parts
In the last 5 years, I have been serving with all my heart as Communication Director for the Pittsburgh North Stake. Through all of this, I came to understand that the Lord sees to every detail of the building of His temples, and I have grown and changed in so many ways under His tutelage.
I have worked closely with many awesome people in our town, and I've been humbled to work side-by-side with amazing people from every faith and organization in my area.
I developed photography as a personal hobby and have taken thousands of photos of the temple, its construction from start to completion, special visitors, and my favorite, landscape photos that include the temple. It has been amazing for my soul to watch how the temple has blessed our family. I am in awe of all of it.
During that time, I have not blogged.
As technology moved away from blogging, and as my son became a very controversial online presence with literally millions of followers, I just focused on sharing my testimony in my own life and on my personal social media circles. That has fed my need as a journalist to express myself and fostered many close relationships with people of all walks of life, for which I am so grateful.
As of right now, I am just recovering my blog, as my previous domain name (www.wetalkofchrist.com) got scooped up by someone else (probably when my payment method expired, and I didn't notice).
Because of trolls online who want to "beef" with my son and what he stands for, I and my blog have been periodically attacked, which at first I found deeply hurtful and unfair. And since the content of this blog and the memories of my kids when they were younger and the lessons that I taught them are so well-documented on this blog, I am protective of it. Given this, I am contemplating just what to do with my blog.
I realized when my blog was unexplainably down for a while, that I rely on this site as a reference for recipes, thoughts, and lessons I have shared. I found it annoying when I couldn't easily access it. And periodically, I still receive very kind emails from people thanking me for certain posts.
So, that is the update. I am still here. Still in the faith. STRONGER THAN EVER....despite difficult challenges that are just part of mortality, challenges that have seasoned me and brought me depth and wisdom that comes when children become teens and teenagers become adults.
Since it relates to this blog, I will share one more thought.
This blog was founded on one scripture: 2 Nephi 25:26, which says:
And we talk of Christ, we rejoice in Christ, we preach of Christ, we prophesy of Christ, and we write according to our prophecies, that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins.
As I have watched my children move from that innocent, pre-baptism season of life, to the season of accountability and of trial and error, this scripture, that always guided my efforts as a parent became even more vital to me.
And I realized that I didn't fully understand it when they were little.
When my children were small and incapable of committing sin, I focused mainly on the joy that talking of and preaching about Christ with them brought me. And the last bit of this scripture, frankly, didn't seem to match the rest of this joyful passage.
But when my kids started making their own choices, I finally understood that the last lines "that our children may know to what source they may look for a remission of their sins," was not out of place at all. It was not mistakenly "tacked on" to the end of the passage...it WAS the point.
The point of decades (now) that my husband and I spent "talking of Christ" with our children was so that when the time came, we could have faith that our children are in God's hands now and that they would KNOW to what source they CAN look for a remission of their sins.
I am so grateful for this understanding that has taken me about a decade of difficult experiences to truly grasp. But my faith in Christ has grown, not waned.
And through it, my new Mom-mantra has become:
"I raise them. Jesus Saves them."
I don't try to do His job, because that would be very frustrating and frankly impossible. But I can keep doing my job and increase my faith by remaining calm and waiting and watching as His great plan for all of HIS children unfolds over time.
I trust that the Creator of us all, has the ability to bring ALL of His Children Home...in His time.
I am grateful for every woman, sister, and friend I have made over the decade of blogging that I did here.
Thank you for supporting me with your comments and friendship and helping me grown spiritually as well.
XO, and Merry Christmas, Friends!
Sunday, June 20, 2021
A Beautiful Sunset
Friday, June 18, 2021
Scarlett Turns 14
Thursday, June 17, 2021
Volleyball
They both play volleyball, as did I in high school, but it was just so fun to watch my kids cheering in the student section. It was so NORMAL! Here's to more normal.
Our team didn't advance to the finals, but they got so far and were really fun to watch.
Wednesday, June 16, 2021
Made it Through this Crazy Year
Tuesday, June 15, 2021
Getting in to Gardening again
Monday, June 14, 2021
Patriotic Kid Books
Saturday, May 15, 2021
Zee best Mother's Day
I had the best Mother's Day...actually I took the whole week and celebrated! :) In truth, since it was "teacher appreciation week", I decided to treat myself to something each day, since I homeschooled Honor this year! And so the two "holidays" just kind of got stretched out all week.
I took the kids out to lunch one day, bought some plants and flowers for the yard, got cards from the kids, got flowers from the girls and some friends. It was really nice.
As a Mom, I'm just not someone who takes breaks. I feel like I need to be on 100% of the time and for a long time, that has basically been true. So it was nice for once to let loose a little!
And I'm very grateful to my husband for making it such a fun weekend for me by serving me and treating me extra special!
Friday, May 14, 2021
A Tribute to my Mother on Mother's Day
Thursday, May 13, 2021
Tis the Season
I try to support Guy in the good things he is involved in and one of those things is that he plays on the volleyball team.
This week Scarlett had a band concert at the same time as one of Guy's home games. Because of the pandemic, only senior parents could attend the band concert in person, but they livestreamed it. So I listened to Scarlett's Band concert on my earbuds, while sitting in the gym watching the Varsity volleyball team play.
Isn't it an amazing world and time that we live in?
Wednesday, May 12, 2021
Happy Birthday to My Dad
Tuesday, May 11, 2021
She teaches me how to plant...
I mentioned yesterday that Sunday was Coy's first day in Primary ever. It was also Val's first day back at Primary since the Pandemic started. And prior to that he only went for about two months!
One of the sweet parts of Primary for me is hearing the answers the children gave to the questions posed by the singing leader.
Question: What's one rule that your Mom has?
Val's Answer: "Make Mom happy."
Question: What is something that your Mother has taught you?
Val's Answer: "How to plant!"
We've done a lot of planting in the last few months...seeds, bulbs, seedlings, and plants.
This week, we planted a doozy: It will hopefully turn into a very large elephant ear that's about 5-6 feet tall!
I love planting with my children and watching things grow together. And I'm very anxious to see what Val and Coy grow into as well! I am still waiting to see what will happen to the seeds that I planted in my oldest children. My prayers go out for them all every day.
Monday, May 10, 2021
Coy's First Day of Primary!
Sunday, May 9, 2021
End of School FHE
We've done this in different ways a few times before, but with the wrapping up of Honor's 2nd grade Homeschool year, we decided we needed to have a family home evening to display some of her creations and celebrate the work of both Val and Honor this year.
























































